The Four Pillars of Needs™
Discover the foundation of The Proactive Needs & Boundaries Method™ and transform how you connect with yourself and others!
The Four Pillars of Needs course is the entry point into the Proactive Needs & Boundaries Method™. It is designed to help you discover what truly matters to you by identifying your dealbreakers, your core needs, your wants, and the offerings you naturally bring to others.
Most of us move through life with only a vague sense of what we require to feel safe, supported, and fulfilled. This course creates the space to pause, reflect, and uncover the building blocks of who you are. By the end, you will have created your own Four Pillars profile that gives you clarity, direction, and a strong foundation for growth.
What’s Included
The course is presented in five modules. You will explore your offerings, wants, needs, and dealbreakers before bringing them together in an integration module. Each step includes video lessons, reflection exercises, worksheets, and check-in quizzes to help you consolidate what you are learning. A certificate is available on completion. A printed workbook can also be ordered as a companion to the course.
What You’ll Gain
Through this course you will gain clarity about who you are and what is important to you. You will be able to name your dealbreakers, define your essential needs, recognise your wants, and acknowledge the offerings you bring. This profile becomes a personal guide that you can return to whenever you feel uncertain, lost, or out of alignment.
Who Is This Course For?
This course is for anyone ready to step into self-discovery. It is especially supportive for people navigating change, people seeking deeper connection with themselves, and individuals who want to better understand the foundations of their wellbeing.
Next Steps
You can begin your journey today by enrolling in the course. You may also like to explore the full Proactive Needs & Boundaries Method™ to see how the Four Pillars fit into the wider framework. For deeper integration, order the printed workbook to accompany your study.
“Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”
CONFUCIUS
“Lyndal helped us find a new way to communicate that was healthy and calm. She got me to start unpacking what I wanted from the relationship – from big goals to daily chores. She was a big help and instrumental in our marriage.”
“Working with Lyndal helped me gain precision and clarity on my wants, needs, and dealbreakers—which has been life-changing.
As someone with a communications background, I thought I knew how to express myself effectively.
But Lyndal’s approach and guidance gave me leverage to better communicate my needs with a clarity that transformed not just how I see myself, but how I navigate all my relationships.This work has been invaluable, whether you’re in a relationship or single, needing to be heard or seeking deeper connection, Lyndal will help you find your voice in ways that truly serve you.
I can’t recommend her highly enough.”